By Donna Hatch
A time-honored English tradition, dating back hundreds of years, is the House Party. In England, house parties served multiple purposes: the gathering of friends; an informal setting in which to discuss politics and possibly sway a member of Parliament; showing off one’s wealth to friends or anyone else the host is trying to impress; and it also could provide a last-ditch effort to help a young lady secure a marriage proposal if her Season had failed to produce such a coveted event—a hostess could easily bring the hopeful young lady in contact with the gentleman of choice and provide a variety of activities to show her best side.
A time-honored English tradition, dating back hundreds of years, is the House Party. In England, house parties served multiple purposes: the gathering of friends; an informal setting in which to discuss politics and possibly sway a member of Parliament; showing off one’s wealth to friends or anyone else the host is trying to impress; and it also could provide a last-ditch effort to help a young lady secure a marriage proposal if her Season had failed to produce such a coveted event—a hostess could easily bring the hopeful young lady in contact with the gentleman of choice and provide a variety of activities to show her best side.
Longleat House |
Country
estates were the perfect way to highlight the host’s wealth. Often a long and
meandering driveway took visitors through a picturesque plot of land designed
to inspire and awe. The Longleat House driveway was noted for taking guests through
beautifully landscaped acres of land to the main house. There an impressing
outer stairway led to an imposing great hall. Everyone in attendance viewed
art, furniture and other luxuries, such as carriages, a stable full of impressive
horses, and lawn tennis courts. A house party cost a great deal of money due in
part to the lavish meals provided to guests. Expensive imported alcohol and
lavish desserts were served, and the best glasses, china, and silver were used,
or purchased, for such an event. Hosts often outfitted their servants with new,
expensive livery and sometimes hired additional servants to accommodate the
strain of so many guests. Female guests usually brought their ladies’ maids,
and some gentlemen brought their valets. If so, these servants had to be fed
and given accommodations. If not, the host and hostesses’ house maids and
footmen filled these roles. Families often ate and lived very modestly for
months after a house party to make up for the cost. Others simply incurred
enormous debt they had no hope of paying.
Guests during the Regency enjoyed a simple buffet breakfast whenever they arrived in the dining room which included eggs, fruits, toast, ham, pastries and jam. They drank tea, coffee, chocolate (which was hot and bitter like coffee). Men might also drink beer or a cherry brandy were the drink of choice. Some hostess served luncheon but this was a new tradition during the Regency. Some old-fashioned folk held to breakfast, dinner and supper. Luncheons could be informal meals in the dining room or picnics al Fresca, or they could be as formal as dinner. Afternoon tea always appeared, of course, and dinner was always formal, requiring a change into formal wear. Of course, for the ladies, every activity or meal seemed to have its own dress code and often a chair of hairstyle as well.
Activities at a house party during the day usually involved the men hunting or shooting (depending on the season), the fox hunt, and billiards. Alas, the ladies usually got stuck inside much of the day visiting, writing letters, and other tame activities. Sometimes, they went outside for walks or carriage rides, or they watched the men plays sports and even joined in on croquet, lawn tennis, and lawn bowling. Indoor games that involved both sexes included word games, charades, musicales, dances and card games. Baccarat gained popularity because the Prince of Wales loved this card game, which was illegal. “Prinny” reportedly provided his own set of counters so he’d be prepared for an on-the-spot game. Eventually bridge took Baccarat’s place in popularity.
Guests during the Regency enjoyed a simple buffet breakfast whenever they arrived in the dining room which included eggs, fruits, toast, ham, pastries and jam. They drank tea, coffee, chocolate (which was hot and bitter like coffee). Men might also drink beer or a cherry brandy were the drink of choice. Some hostess served luncheon but this was a new tradition during the Regency. Some old-fashioned folk held to breakfast, dinner and supper. Luncheons could be informal meals in the dining room or picnics al Fresca, or they could be as formal as dinner. Afternoon tea always appeared, of course, and dinner was always formal, requiring a change into formal wear. Of course, for the ladies, every activity or meal seemed to have its own dress code and often a chair of hairstyle as well.
John_Wootton's "A Fox Hunt" |
Activities at a house party during the day usually involved the men hunting or shooting (depending on the season), the fox hunt, and billiards. Alas, the ladies usually got stuck inside much of the day visiting, writing letters, and other tame activities. Sometimes, they went outside for walks or carriage rides, or they watched the men plays sports and even joined in on croquet, lawn tennis, and lawn bowling. Indoor games that involved both sexes included word games, charades, musicales, dances and card games. Baccarat gained popularity because the Prince of Wales loved this card game, which was illegal. “Prinny” reportedly provided his own set of counters so he’d be prepared for an on-the-spot game. Eventually bridge took Baccarat’s place in popularity.
After
dinner, the ladies left the men and retired to the drawing room, leaving the
gentleman to drink port, smoke cheroots, and discuss manly topics such as
horses and politics. Later, the gentlemen joined the ladies for cards or music
or dancing or games.
The
house party, like most events, evolved over time. However, its purpose and
popularity lasted for generations.
Sources:
Years
of researching Regency customs inspired the bulk of this post, however, I also
drew from:
https://janeaustensworld.wordpress.com/2010/12/28/entertaining-visitors-in-an-english-country-house-such-as-downton-abbey/
Evangeline
Holland / Posted in Season, Society
http://www.edwardianpromenade.com/season/the-country-house-party/
Further
Reading:
The Country House Party
by Phyllida Barstow
The Marlborough House Set
by Anita Leslie
Society in the Country House
by Thomas Hay Sweet Escott
Manners and Rules of Good Society
by A Member of the Aristocracy
Etiquette of Good Society
by Lady Colin Campbell
A Country House Party
by Lord Byron in “A Satire Anthology" by Carolyn Wells
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